True Love?

Is there such a thing as true love?  Or is it just lust and companionship?  After much alcohol consumption i came to realize that women in their early 20's generally look for true love - but near their 30's they'd rather have stability.

I guess that doesn't make much sense - kinda hard to put into words.  I honestly don't think most women look for love when they are around their 30's - and rather look for men who they feel would give them the most security in life and make everyone happy.  Hence the wise words of "good guys finish last".  The guys that don't have much to offer other than money.  You know.. the geeks that make $$$ who end up with a really hot girl.  Does the girl really love him?  Some could argue that they do.. but I respectively would argue the topic.

Some girls i talk to agree with me, they straight up say, "i'd rather have a man that can support/provide my financial needs when i'm ready to wed..."  This brings up a huge question.. how the hell do you fake it?  The rest of your life is a total lie.  You're not really in love, but you are stuck with that person for the rest of your life (unless divorce is an option).  Isn't there more to love than the modernized meaning of the word?

Once in a blue moon, i do see two people whom are madly in love that get married and live happily ever after.  This is so rare though.  The women in particular that i stereotype in this blog are Korean women.  Not to say other ethnic women aren't shallow, but i think Korean women are really high on the shallow-meter.  This is a really good thing in some ways for Korean men.. who have lots of money.  Just watch out.. the woman ur about to get married to - probably was a freak (unless that doesn't bother you).

I know soooo many Korean girls that were total freaks 10 years ago.  Now they are married to a guy they would have never noticed at a club (nor given them their phone #).  This world we live in.. is all about money.  Sure.. money can't buy happiness.. but guess what - it will bring you 100x more chances at happiness than the douche that has no money.

Love is for fools.  Live for your own happiness and make sure you get a prenuptial agreement.  If going out with a girl that only likes you cuz you buy her nice things makes you happy.. do it.  Just don't be an idiot and believe her when she utters the words, "i love you".  I love you, is code word for, "i want you to buy me the new Gucci bag that came out".